We See the Moon
“I see the Moon, and
The Moon sees me
The Moon sees somebody I’d like to see…”
Low, off-key, the little children’s ditty pops out, first as humming, a melodic memory from childhood a half-century ago. Absently, I begin…
But Then, She’ll…
Perhaps because Halloween ghosts and goblins were everywhere and trick or treat just a few days away--who knows?--but mortality leaped into the conversation in my kitchen on a recent weekend morning. Of all things, it grew out of a session…
Mystery Man
In my family, we tend to keep our history right where we can see it.
That’s not because we are important, or unusually fixated on the past. We do tend to hold on to things and use them, objects that serve a function—here's a cast-iron…
Lazy, Annoying Bug
I need an idea, I say to me
It’s a lie
The truth is they are everywhere
Summer gnats boring through screen holes
Surreptitiously biting the most tender skin, right at the temple, where I yank my irreverent hair out of my eyes…
Hardest questions, toughest moments
Somewhere, far, far away, there lies an obscure stone carved with this universal truth for parents, grandparents, and adult friends: Children will ask life’s hardest questions at the precise moments in which you are least prepared to…
Live from the Peanut Gallery
“It’s Howdy Doody time!”
Shouting that storied response from the Golden Age of early television was the happy chore of a few dozen Boomer kids watching the popular live show from the bleacher seats known as “The Peanut Gallery.” …
Endless Opportunity, In the Round
Entertaining children successfully and safely requires, as veterans may have learned the hard way, thoughtful preparation. And a few essential tools.
Wait. Scratch that. Sometimes, you might get away with just one tool.
It…
Lessons from an Old Dog
My best pal, a shiny, stunning “ginger,” as the British call redheads, is getting white on top.
Surely it has happened gradually, but I suddenly noticed it recently, in full force, for the first time. Staring at her across the room…
Six Special Safety Tips for Kid Visits
All you grandparents, aunts and uncles, godparents, and kindly friends of families with children out there, Heads Up. Summer is here, and we want the kiddos to visit, right? Of course, we do; under the right circumstances, we love it. …