
To Sleep, To Dream
Need a little something to help you sleep?
Of course you do. If you are over 50, as many of G-ma’s readers can proudly claim, it’s a virtual certainty. Sleep problems are a guaranteed conversation topic wherever people of a certain…

Demystifying Detritus
The grandchildren are growing up so quickly it almost hurts to watch it. With spring birthdays just weeks apart, Buddy and Sis are about to turn eight and six, respectively, and change seems to manifest even in the (luckily) small intervals…

Hope Smiles
The broad-shouldered, stocky shopper with the expression of a man on a mission stepped up to the counter and carefully deposited his haul: two stacks, six boxes high each, of soft-soled bedroom slippers in various cheerful prints. An…

About the Aftermath
Four generations turned up at our family Thanksgiving table this year, a memorable time, indeed. Seated with honor at one end of the table was my 87-year-old mother, now bearing the title our uncle used to call the OLM (Oldest Living Member). …

Live from the Peanut Gallery
“It’s Howdy Doody time!”
Shouting that storied response from the Golden Age of early television was the happy chore of a few dozen Boomer kids watching the popular live show from the bleacher seats known as “The Peanut Gallery.” …

Six Special Safety Tips for Kid Visits
All you grandparents, aunts and uncles, godparents, and kindly friends of families with children out there, Heads Up. Summer is here, and we want the kiddos to visit, right? Of course, we do; under the right circumstances, we love it. …

I Spy T.R.O.U.B.L.E.
Over the last few months, the most wondrous thing has suddenly picked up steam like a bullet train.
My 7-year-old grandson is READING. Just about everywhere, and everything. Books for his younger sister, longer and more complex stories…

The Acquisition Abstinence Experiment: Commerce, Comedy, and Conclusion
Let’s get to the meat first, and get the suspense out of the way: I blew it.
Or, you could view it through a different lens, and say I triumphed. You can decide for yourself, with some scoop on the details.
About what, you ask? …

Where Danger Lurks, Deep Inside
Ah, the slow-crawling days of deepest winter. Lead-gray, sodden, and short, these are the days that incline us to stay inside and shut tight the door. In the sanctuary of home, we turn inward, to examine…what? Maybe, our plans and hopes…

The Weight of Fashion, and Other Delusions
We all have problems that we know, someday when courage permits, must be faced. Could today be the day that I am tough enough?
Maybe I can’t really do this myself. Should I summon professional help?
It is time to excavate the interior…

Onward, Sister Resister
Nicknames show up in funny ways. Some may spring from characters in music, books, or movies, but others, perhaps, from the times in which we live.
I’m pretty sure that’s the case for the moniker that recently came to mind for my…

Polishing Off the Perfect Peach
There could be enthralling cartoons rolling merrily on the screen, there might even be fierce artistic fervor unfolding, there may be arguing, even shoving, with battle lines being negotiated . Just about any attention-grabber the…

All Families are Funny, Sometimes: G-ma’s Readers Write
G-ma was delighted when a couple of recent installments of the Chronicles inspired readers to recall some of their own favorite family lore. Even better, they wrote and shared their memories and bestowed permission to pass them on. Over…

Growing old, together
An alluring spring dawn had announced itself through the slats in the window blinds long before we raised our heads from the pillows simultaneously and locked eyes. No words were exchanged, but the message was clear. Keats would have…

The Undisputed Hoover of Plate Cleaners
Children change so quickly, don’t they? It’s an amazing thing to watch. And, of course, it’s so much easier to discern these charming progress points when they aren’t your immediate progeny. Kind of like watching a new house…

After the Storm, the Calm
First, close the door as carefully as possible. Now, let’s survey the aftermath.
There is a dinosaur sticker clinging to the hardwood floor near the entry hallway, torn, folded in half, but sticking nonetheless. A single, royal…

Southbound Girls and Birthday Reflections
A landmark birthday roared past recently, one of those that bestows a zero digit on your age and thus cannot be ignored. Even for those of us who aren’t given to ruminating about the terrors of aging, it’s hard not to contemplate the…

Off to School: Ready, or Not?
In photos passed around at the office or posted proudly on Facebook, in conversations remote or at the coffee machine, whether about emerging kindergartners or newly liberated college freshers, the off-to-school transition has a universal…

The View from the Next Booth
It’s a routine Sunday morning at my favorite neighborhood restaurant, the best place for breakfast in our part of town—that is, it’s best if you prefer to place your order while sitting at a table, to a seasoned grown-up who will bring…

Things I Remembered on My Summer Vacation
It’s time to get back into harness after a perfectly delightful summer break, which included plenty of fun in the sun, some intriguing backroads exploration, and a restorative helping of lengthy naps. There was lots of quality time with…

Hold Me Closer, Tiny Dancer
The Scene: Spring dance recital.
The Location: A clean, bright church in the heart of downtown.
The Players: Scores of dance students in assorted matching ensembles, ranging from restless, over-stimulated three-year-olds in tremulous…

Gift Wars: The Shopper Awakens
When seeking that perfect holiday gift for a child, the indulgent adult may step forward gamely with an open heart and wallet and the spirit of the season oozing from every pore. Yet even the most well-intended Giver may quickly be overwhelmed…

Child-proofing: Another term for Don’t Kid Yourself
Quick! Twenty minutes on the clock. Go.
Living room: Art pottery whisked off coffee table, stowed on top of fridge. DVR remote up onto mantle, same place each time, in fervent hope I can remember where to reclaim it. Embroidered throw…

Zen and the Art of Negotiating with Toddlers
A brilliant, Harvard-trained Ph.D. who was teaching a business school class on negotiation that I attended not long ago added intriguing dimension to her lecture with an interesting personal anecdote. This insightful strategist, who consults…