If you ever feel compelled to examine your lifestyle in one rapid, unmerciful snapshot—a picture that unveils your purchasing habits, your eating patterns, your organizational skills, your housecleaning talents, your virtues or vices as a pet parent and neighbor—consider moving to a new home. By the time you get out (or should we say get […]
In a recent interview about an upcoming movie he produced, Oscar winner Denzel Washington was asked about the support he provided early in the career of the brilliant young actor Chadwick Boseman, who died earlier this year. Boseman, a central character in Washington’s upcoming film release, had openly expressed his gratitude that Washington paid his […]
A few days after United States voters elected a new president and America’s first female vice president, I sat on a stool at the counter in my daughter’s kitchen, chopping with my granddaughter. Her mother was working up a beautiful breakfast frittata, and Sis and I were helping with prep. Helping is a prioritized objective […]
I give the dog’s leash a little tug to move him along from the fragrant, faded fire hydrant he’s been examining in exhaustive detail. “C’mon, bud,” I encourage him, “let’s go see Jesus.” Hearing my words aloud, I realize that these are not routine instructions for your average weekday morning dog walk, so I reflexively […]
It was the kind of answer you pray for when you are on the verge. “Don’t worry, Mom, I’ll take care of it,” my competent daughter said in response to my panicky text. “I’ll leave in about 15 minutes and will be right over.” I couldn’t find an emoji for desperation, but no matter–she clearly […]
A drama in one act The scene Location No. 1: A 7-year-old girl’s bedroom at about 7:45 p.m. The room is captured in the screen camera’s eye and beamed over the ether to another screen miles away, via the technology that is re-defining communication and relationships in the era of COVID. Child is leaning back […]
It’s so hard to know what to do these days, isn’t it? Watch the news, or turn it off? Cook like a rampaging mother of six, or support your local cafe with takeout, at the curbside, of course? Undertake a new hobby? (Spare me. Only the ultra-privileged would utter such nonsense.) Here’s one for writers: […]
Time is a blur these days, but it still seems that our relationship was in its tender, early stages when suddenly, with the onset of a national emergency, we became captives together. Maybe not captives exactly, but we are tethered here by a togetherness that is unrelenting, with no end in sight. In this unprecedented […]
The accomplished hostess knows this fundamental truth of entertaining: Good parties tend to grow. A little gathering at my place on a recent weekend morning started with just two guests, with my granddaughter Sis as hostess and me hovering in attendance nearby as kitchen staff. “Evie, can we get out the tea set?” she had […]
Nothing illuminates the beauty of the average day quite so brilliantly as the fear that the average day has vanished indefinitely, maybe for always. And so, on the morning after the President of the United States declared the virus pandemic a national emergency, I ventured out to see how my little world would respond to […]